I hope this is ok but l am not the one with cancer in our family. Cancer has only just arrived in my families life a matter of weeks ago and things are very stressful and strange and in all honesty l would like to shut the door, and keep the whole world at bay but obviously this is not an option. My husband of 22 yrs has just been diagnosed with Myeloma and our world has quite literally fallen apart. I am hoping that when the fog clears and the terror recedes and some semblance of normal... life will be achievable. I hope so....