Hi. This is my first time posting. I am pale with blond hair and I have always dreaded the threat of melanoma (I had a couple of sunburns as a teenager). I recently noticed that a mole on my arm had changed - become more bumpy and rough. I have seen a dermatologist who couldn't say either way so I am now scheduled for an excision and biopsy. I am so worried; I suffer from anxiety and panic attacks and I am struggling to function. I won't get any results until the New Year so Christmas is a right off but I have 2 young children who I have to keep entertained..just wondering if anyone is in a similar position to me