Dr on annual leave - results delay

I'm so frustrated and just needed to vent, I hope that is ok.

I had an excision biopsy 4 weeks ago and have been very calm, keeping busy. I called yesterday to see if my results had been delayed as it was the end of the timeframe they had advised.  It seems my results have been received but my Dr is on annual leave until next week and needs to write to me and my GP.  I don't know why but this has really upset me, I felt panicky last night for the first time and cried, today I have been so anxious it's making me sick.  I feel really frustrated and my control has slipped a bit. Its the not knowing that is gettng to me and knowing the paperwork is sitting there is awful. 

Has anyone else had this situation, on one hand my brain is telling me that if it was cancer a different Dr would have been in touch but I dont know if thats how the hospital works. 

I think I'm just looking for a handhold, I dont know anyone else who has had to wait for biopsy results, and a few people who I have told have remarked that at least its just skin cancer, I'm being biopsied for melanoma rather than BCC and I dont think people understand what melanoma can be. 

If anyone else fancies joining me on a pity train please pull up a chair.

  • Hi Peachypossum 

     I really feel for you my son had a mole removed 7 weeks ago and I have telephoned the hospital every week since the 3 week mark. I was told 2 weeks ago the results were back I expected a letter last week but nothing came. I rang the hospital again and the consultant has gone off with covid. I literally have just had a phone call to say it's all clear. I hope you get your results soon it has been so worrying.

  • Hi 

    I am waiting  for MRI results I know were in last week - my consultant was off on annual leave too so I know how you feel. I am assuming he is back now, but still heard nothing yet. This is my 3rd imaging scan I have had - and I just want to know what the result is! It is very frustrating and I am going to phone the department tomorrow to see if he is back and if there is any progress on getting these results. At no point since my first consultation, has anyone actually spoken to me - I have just been copied in to 2 letters to my GP. Not great when you need questions answered, and turn up for the tests they ask for without having a clue what they have seen and what they might do about it. My first MRI took them 6 weeks to get back to me, as it went to an MDT meeting. You think no news is good news - but in honesty it really depends on how quickly the consultant decides what to do!

  • I'm so glad you got good results. 

    I guess its good I rang as it means I can stop checking the post like some kind of household bill addict.

  • I've had a few comments on the no news is good news, or they would be in touch far sooner if its cancer, but I just don't beleive it works like that in most cases.  I'm really quite miffed too as I have medical insurance but didnt take that route as my apopointments initially were exactly what you would expect, and now I'm in limbo.

     

    I hope you get your results soon and that they are what is hoped for.  Are you able to phone and see whats going on?  I think sometimes they forget the human side as its their job and we forget its their job as its huge for us and worrying.  I have a huge amount of respect for what they do, but they see all this day in day out.

    Are you maanging to stay distracted? I'm a witness in a court case so thats taking my days up this week (we keep getting called in and sent home again) and I'm having a few hiccups with a project I'm trying to work on.  I think I need to book a dinner out or something so I have nice distractions too.

  • Hi!

    I tried ringing for my results again today in my lunch break - have now found out that the consultant is off until next week (they could have saved me the upset by telling me last week!)  Also the radiologist who works along side him is also off - so double whammy! I work full time - so I haven't got a lot of time to dwell on what ifs, they just creep up on me in quiet moments and I have a few tears. I am off visiting at the weekend, off next week too, so I have time to pester if I have to. I know they are super busy - but I have to say a that a little voice in my head is saying it coud be another MDT meeting before I hear anything!

  • Hi Peachypossum,

    Have you got anywhere with your results yet?

    I haven't! I called again today, secretary put me though to rheumatology nurse (my lesion was discovered and investigated through them) - who wasn't there, so I had to leave a message. She did get back to me, but can't help! So yet again I am left high and dry with very little info. She said maybe my GP will have the results - I don't think so .... they told me to call you as I have not been discharged from hospital care. Anyhow she did say she would look into it further for me. I do wonder if this is going to be another MDT meeting about the results before anyone will talk to me.