Mole removal

I found a large dark mole in my belly button and panicked so much I paid to go privately. I'm very fair skinned, not moley in general, never lived/worked in the sun and have no family history of skin cancer. Because of the last couple of reasons, the dermatologist said I'm not a likely candidate for melanoma. He inspected my mole and basically told me that he understood why I was concerned, due to not being a moley person and it's irregular shape, and he diagnosed it as a 'spitz nevus'. He told me just to monitor it over the next few years, or he could take it out for me. I decided to have it removed and I'm awaiting the results. I've scared myself to death reading things online, but this looks like the friendlist place to get some advice or hear some other peoples stories. For context: i'm a 22 year old woman. At the moment i am still healing from the procedure, and the doctor said I should hear from them in the next few days...any similar stories? 

  • Hi,

    I know how worried you must be but please don't trawl online as the information is out of date and only focuses on worse case scenarios. It doesn't tell you that 75% of patients are given clear results, or that 20% are found to be dysplastic (pre-cancerous) moles whilst only 5% are melanoma. Those odds are very significant to those awaiting their results so please try and keep them in mind. Even most of the 5% diagnosed with melanoma are caught early and 95% of them are successfully treated and have no further problem, so it's not as desperate as online stories make out.

    In my family (me, brother, niece & nephew) have had 11 moles removed between us. 3 of the moles were dysplastic (brother & niece), 1 was melanoma (mine) and 7 were benign (nephew & me) so that gives you a true snapshot of the odds. 

    I hope this helps & I hope your results bring good news. Please let us know how you get on,

    Angie (Stage 3 melanoma patient since 2009)

  • Hi Angie, 

    Thank you that was really insightful. I do tend to focus on worse cases scenario and I try and find confidence in the fact my doctor encouraged me to simply monitor it. Because of where the mole is and the fact I'd never seen it before, I'd never been able to monitor its growth, it could've been there for a really long time. It's just the uncertainty I struggle with. Thank you for those statistics, I have never found anything as encouraging as that online before. 

    Thank you again and I hope you're well

    Cat