Swollen gland in the left side of my neck

Hi .

 

I was wondering if anyone would be able to give me some advice ? I am worried sick! 
I've had a lump / swollen gland in the left side of my neck for a few months now! I keep being throbbed off by the drs saying I'm ' fine ' and I've been given numerous boxes of antibiotics that haven't worked.

i have extreame lethargy, I feel tired all of the time, I always feel really hot! Even if it's freezing cold outside and I have a severely itchy scalp! I've had blood tests done and they've all come back normal but I just feel so run down and worried sick sick have a 1 year old son and I feel like I can't be a proper mum at the moment due to feeling so unwell , worried etc . It's making my anxiety hit the roof also.

 

im going to speak to my dr tomorrow to hopefully be referred to an ENT specialist but at a private hospital as I was also referred to a normal hospital , had an ultra sound done and was told ' no further action needed ' the lump has got bigger since then and I still feel so under the weather :(

 

any advice would be appreciated.

Lauren x