Lump in one breast and thickening in the other

Back in May this year (2021) I found a lump in my left breast (not normal for me) so I went to the GP she had a feel and seemed quite concerned, reffered me to the hospital and said ideally ide have an appointment within 2 weeks. (strong family history of breast cancer) We'll its now August no appointment in sight so I've phone hospital today and been told "ahh your only 24, i bet it's not even cancer, you have been put down as a routine appointment, 12-18 month wait nothing else we can do".

Since finding the lump in my left ive found a large area of thick breast tissue too which wasn't there a few months ago

Every day since I've found the lump I've been constantly thinking about it, im not eating properly, not sleeping properly always thinking 'what if it is cancer and this long wait will result in it being to late' I am on my own and I have two young children, im so scared that they will catch it to late if it is indeed cancer and I won't be around for my children. Ive even looked into going private but I just can't afford the costs. How do people cope with the long waiting times and the stress off the wait? 

  • Oh what a worry for you. Can you ask for another GP opinion? Usually all lumps are urgent referral regardless of age. I'd ring and keep ringing until I got the referral! Be adamant! (Easier said than done, I'd probably just cry on the phone). They can't possibly rule anything out without tests. 

    I hope you get it sorted soon. 

    Keep us posted 

    C x

  • I actually did end up crying on the phone and spoke to gp practice straight after but they told me I need to ring every day at 8.30 and hope to be able to get through to a doctor one day soon ( my gp practice is really outta wack atm with only 1 doctor coving 3 different practice' as its a collaborative system). Honestly I'm so scared I have had a re-feel  and found 2 more lumps one above and one below the original lump. Going to keep calling in the hopes they get sick off me and see me. Thank you for your kind words x

  • That's awful! I didn't even see my GP, it was a nurse who saw me, examined then referred. I'd maybe mention to the receptionist that you don't need to see anyone, you just need the GP to refer you immediately. I'll keep everything crossed that you get it sorted soon 

    C x