2cm breast lump scared

Hello, I'm so scared I went to get my breast checked as I felt like a thickening to the underneath of my breast, the shelf part.  
The nurse said that she found a 2cm palpable lump! I've been referred for a 2ww mammogram etc. I'm so scared. I can't move the lump or anything it's a bit tender to touch but I think that's more because I've been feeling it etc.

I have two children and I'm so scared I'll die and they'll be left without a mam. They will have a wonderful dad and family but I know they will hurt so badly without me.

I know people say that it can be many different things but I've been tired lately and generally just feeling a bit under the weather too. 
 

I just feel so scared for everyone, I think if I didn't have family to think about I'd feel differently. 

  • Hi Opalcine,

    Welcome to Cancer Chat. These feelings are perfectly natural - I know the uncertainty and the waiting is never easy.

    Try not to assume anything at this point. As you say, the tenderness may be due to feeling it a lot - perhaps try to avoid doing this prior to the appointment as it may also be increasing worry.

    Try to keep yourself busy while you wait to help keep your mind off things. Hopefully you won't have long to wait for the appointment.

    Wishing you all the best,

    Ben
    Cancer Chat Moderator