Worried about the wait for my partner's diagnosis

My partner was told at an emergency ENT appointment 9 days ago that he probably has tonsil cancer. He's been for some scans already - with more booked across the weekend. However, we've been told that the biopsy won't happen for approx 3+ weeks as it needs to be carried out under general anaesthetic - with a 2 week notice period due to covid. Obviously this is an incredibly stressful time for my partner (and me) and we're just so worried that the cancer might be spreading during this wait. I guess we're just looking for some reassurance that this timeframe for biopsy is normal as I've read quite a few other patient stories about tonsil cancer diagnosis that seemed to work a lot faster than this. I know everyone is different, but I just feel so powerless and concerned that this is moving so slowly. Many thanks for any advice / support you can offer.

  • Hello Weaselbear

    I'm sorry to hear that your partner is currently waiting on a biopsy for probable tonsil cancer. It's understandable that you're both feeling worried about things. 

    We've quite a number of members here who have been through diagnosis and treatment for tonsil/oral cancers. You might find it helpful to post on this thread which is very active amongst those members. I'd also suggest having a look for posts by [@RadioactiveRaz]‍ and [@Anchor1707]‍ who have both kept personal blogs during their journeys and I know many members have found those helpful to read through. 

    In the meantime, I'd also recommend giving our team of nurses a call. I'm sure they will be able to give you some advice, information, and support whilst your partner is waiting for the biopsy. They're available Monday to Friday 9 am to 5 pm on 0808 800 4040. 

    Keep in touch Weaselbear and let us know how you're both getting on. 

    Best wishes, 
    Jenn
    Cancer Chat moderator