Mole been sent to dermatologist

Hi, I am 25 years old and female with very pale skin and a lot of freckles and a few moles. However I noticed a big mole on my back that looks different to my other moles, it is darker and much bigger with red at the bottom. It is also a flat mole. It doesn't itch or bleed but I have noticed once when I was on holiday and my back was burnt it changed to a greyish colour. I feel like the mole is bigger now also than it was about 3 years back. I have severe health anxiety and because I scan my body daily for anything that could be wrong I didn't like the look of this 'different' mole. I went to my GP today who looked at it under a special lense and he said he it doesn't look concerning and it's not skin cancer but he is sending it off to the dermatologist to look at. My mind is racing. If the mole was fine why would he send pictures to the dermatologist? He said he will call me in a few days but I can't deal with the uncertainty for that long. He said because of the size. He looked at other moles and said straight away 'completely fine' but with the mole I was concerned about he has took pictures to send off to dermatologist. I never used sun beds but I have been burnt on holiday when I was a young teen. I am so worried and concerned that the dermatologist is going to say it needs a biopsy and I feel ill with worry. I really need advice and some reassurance if possible. I feel like I know something is going to be wrong. The gp said he won't be able to remove it until September but could be later because it's not urgent. If it wasn't urgent why would he send it to dermatologist? I am so worried. 

  • Hi,

    Shafiq has given good advice. The GP has sent the photos to the dermatologist more for your peace of mind (so you get it from an expert) whereas the GP sounds to specialise in dermatology but they don't have the experience of a consultant dermatologist. If the GP thought there was any chance the mole may be malignant they would have referred you under the 2 week 'urgent' pathway. Of course, the dermatologist could say they would rather see it 'in the flesh' before making a decision so don't panic if they suggest this. 75% of patients who have their moles either seen or biopsied by dermatology are given a clean bill of health so it doesn't automatically mean bad news.

    I hope you hear back from them quickly & they can put your mind at rest. Please let us know how you get on,

    Angie (Stage 3 melanoma patient since 2009)

  • Hi, Thankyou so much for taking the time to reply to me I really appreciate it and I wasn't expecting you to give your advice so soon or even at all. Thankyou Angie x I seen another doctor 2 weeks ago who told me it looks uniform colour but she will refer me to the other gp who I seen today because he is the skin doctor and at that time he was on holiday. I asked him was it pre cancerous and he said he can't say no one can say and it has really fuelled my worry even more. However he did say it is definitely not skin cancer so I am so confused. Would he be able to say it's not skin cancer if he was not 100%? I am worrying that the dermatologist will see something he didn't. When he uploaded the photos of my mole on his screen he said it actually looks a lot less concerning now it's on the computer than it did with the tool he used. But even when he used the tool on my back he said it doesn't look concerning. I am honestly so worried. He asked me  has any of my family had skin cancer and I said yes my mums sister she's 61 and she had it when she was 60 but she was a sun worshipper would that make any difference? She had two scabs removed from her face and chest but didn't have any follow ups or anything. He then wrote it down on his computer and kept asking 'what type was it' but I don't know because she was very vague and wasn't at all worried at the time. I am completely different however and worry about everything health related it's so bad and so draining. I am just desperate to hear back from the dermatologist now it is going to feel like forever. It sounds so stupid but I am worried that if I don't worry I will get such a shock if there is anything wrong. I just can't win. So sorry for the long paragraph. Thankyou so much Angie xx