Hi I just want to say that I'm in the same position as you so I'm here if you'd like to chat, I'm waiting on my breast clinic appointment and I am worried sick so I know exactly how you are feeling 

Thankyou its nce to know that someone is there and understands what im feeling because unless a person is going through it themselves they wouldnt understand. Im absilutely terrified.people keep saying to.me dont worry. How can you not worry.. i have never been more scared of anything in my life. Im still.trying to come to terms with losing my husband and now this its all so much. Thankyou for being there for me. If you want to chat anytime im here for you also.

I'm so sorry for the loss of your husband. I agree, my family are saying don't worry it's probably benign. But I have a seriously bad feeling inside I really do I'll keep you updated and I hope you keep me updated too. I'm hoping I'll get an appointment next week x

I'm so sorry for the loss of your husband. I agree, my family are saying don't worry it's probably benign. But I have a seriously bad feeling inside I really do I'll keep you updated and I hope you keep me updated too. I'm hoping I'll get an appointment next week x

I have exactly the sam bad feeling.about.ir as well. The one person i really.need now isnt.here anymore and i.f its bad i wont deal with it. This would devastate my daughter because she only lost her dad last year  this would be too.much.for her

Aw that's so sad for you and your daughter I know it won't take your worry away but I'll be here any time if you need to talk. When is your appointment? My doctor said I'll probably hear from them this week, I'm scared to go

My appointment is  Tuesday at 2 oclock.in the afternoon. I got my referral letter very quickly . I found the lump on monday7th June saw my.GP the day after and received my.referral letter on the 10th june fir Tuesday 15th June 2 oclock

Of cause i will keep you updated . Let me know when you get your referral letter

OK well please let me know how you get on? I read you can get results on the same day from the tests they do but if they take a biopsy you have to wait a week sadly

I dont think you will get any results on the same day i know with a biopsy it could be 2 weeks  probably the same for mammagrams and ultrasound either way its going to be another 2 weeks of hell not knowing. I havent slept proprrly since i found the lump a week ago.and  dont think.i take another 2 weeks of not knowing its absolute hell

I will definitely, will keep in touch x

Im really terrified now i have my referral.appointment at the hospital tomorrow. I have a really bad feeling about this. I have never been more frightened in my life. If anyone else  tells me not to worry or im worrying too much i swear  lose it big time. Some people just dont know what you are going through. You cant just forget about something like this or push it to the back pf your mind. .im absolutely terrified and i dont want to go

I know I totally hear you! I'm having pains in my ribcage and radiating around to my back now and pain in my breasts, let's try to keep eaxh other calm until we know what's going on for sure. You must go, think about it, if you don't you will never know, so please go and let me know how you get on x

I will go but im so scared i wont cope if the news is bad feeling about it and i have lost a lot of weight as well without trying and thats not a good thing. I wasnt that  big to start with and couldnt really afford to lose it. If this is bad news i dont think i will have the strength to fight it