Hi

Now I would not think for one moment you have to worry about cancer but of course you do have to get yourself checked out asap.  I can understand it is difficult to tell your mum for a number of reasons.  Most likely you would just blurt it all out.  I wonder if you are worried that your mum would want to see what you are talking about and that is giving you difficulty.  If so I think you need to plan out what you want to say to her and where you draw your boundaries.  "No Mum.  I would prefer just to let the GP examine me". If I felt I really could not say it then I would write down the detail and say in it what support you want from her.  Do it quickly then you can get back to your life free from worry!

Hi

Now I would not think for one moment you have to worry about cancer but of course you do have to get yourself checked out asap.  I can understand it is difficult to tell your mum for a number of reasons.  Most likely you would just blurt it all out.  I wonder if you are worried that your mum would want to see what you are talking about and that is giving you difficulty.  If so I think you need to plan out what you want to say to her and where you draw your boundaries.  "No Mum.  I would prefer just to let the GP examine me". If I felt I really could not say it then I would write down the detail and say in it what support you want from her.  Do it quickly then you can get back to your life free from worry!