Hello, I’m currently going through this with my mum, she went to the doctors for a lump and they found one under her armpit near her breast, we are so close and she suffers from some learning difficulties that I share such a fear with her for what could happen. I’m 24 and she’s 48 but I just don’t think it’ll ever be simply easy to deal with. My mums 2 week wait for her appointment is over tomorrow and I’m going to be completely honest with you it’s been the worst wait of our lives, there’s been tears, what ifs, good thoughts, everything you could name that now it’s tomorrow we’re fearful but also relieved that it’s finally here. Anyone in my family personally have never had to go through this before, which we are so thankful for, but we are also very in the dark about what will or may happen! I did the worst thing and googled it and I suggest no matter how tempted you are DONT do that!! It set worse fears in me then I had to begin with. Please don’t feel like feeling this way is wrong, it’s normal and if I feel this worried for my mum I can’t begin to think how worrying it is for you going through it.