Hi Jacob,

A very warm welcome to our forum, although I'm sorry to hear about the symptoms that have brought you to us. Firstly, let me assure you that men do get breast cancer, but not as often as women. You have made the right start in seeing your GP. If s/he feels that there might be something untoward present, you will be referred to the breast clinic, where they will carry out tests to determine whether your lump is cancerous or benign.

We all stress out and have negative thoughts at this stage, but you are better to find out and make sure. There are a number of different types of breast cancer and some are more aggressive and advanced than others. May I congratulate you on becoming a father and assure you that even a cancer diagnosis doesn't mean the end. I have had 2 bouts in the past 11 years and am still leading a busy and fulfilled life. We are fortunate that breast cancer is one of the more treatable forms of cancer and many people are now living with it, rather than dying from it. I sincerely hope that all goes well when you speak to your GP on Tuesday. Please keep in touch and let us know how you get on. We are always here for you.

Remember that it's not cancer until you're told that it is and, you are more than likely to be able to spend many more happy years with your new family.

Kind regards,

Jolamine