Pre-diagnosis urgent referral possible bladder cancer

I've been referred to a Urologist as an urgent referral because I'm displaying virtually every symptom of bladder cancer and some symptoms of ovarian cancer. I'm terrified but I'm keeping it from my family for now. I'm feeling very emotional and not sleeping. I feel stupid as I haven't even been diagnosed yet, but need some information and advice should the news be the worst. 

  • Hello LahLah

    I'm so sorry to hear that you're dealing with some health problems at the moment that have resulted in an urgent referral to a specialist. It's understandable that you're feeling scared and upset about what may be going on for you. I think that many of our members here will be able to empathise with just how difficult this period of uncertainty can be. 

    It really can help to talk to someone at times like this. It's understandable that you may want to protect your family until you're able to give them some clear information about a diagnosis and so I'd encourage you to give our team of nurses a call. I know they will be happy to talk things through with you and try and give you some support and information. They're available Monday to Friday from 9 am to 5 pm on 0808 800 4040. 

    Do keep in touch and let us know how you get on. 

    Best wishes, 
    Jenn
    Cancer Chat moderator