Hi Mumma and Syl,

I endorse Benedict's experience. I Have has 2 bouts of breast cancer and a number of false alarms in the past 11 years. On all occasions I had an anaesthetic and an ultrasound guided biopsy, which I hardly felt at all.

You normally have to wait 1-2 weeks to get the results of a biopsy and it can leave the breast a little tender for a while afterwards.

I hope that all turns out well.

Please let us know how you both get on and, remember that we are always here for you.

Kind regards,

Jolamine xx

Thanks for your reply @jolamine. Will pop back Wednesday and let you know x

Hi [@Syl85]‍ 

how are you today? 
 

I received my appointment by letter this morning, it's on Monday 12th April. So just over a week to wait, and just over 2 weeks from referral. To tell you I'm scared now is an understatement. I have had breast pain in both breast all day, some pain in my nipple and itchy armpits. Now I have the appointment I think my mind is going to wander again and the anxiety is setting in, the thought of doing this by myself terrifies me! Xx

Hi @Mumma123,

Surprisingly fine. I dont seem to have any bruising or pain. Its just a bit tender if I touch it. Thank you for asking.

Oh glad you have your appointment through, the waiting will be horrible. Try and take each day as it comes. Have you told anybody? Perhaps also call and ask them if somebody can accompany you and mention you are anxious. I'm not sure if it's even allowed with the covid regulations. But it's worth an ask. I hope your appointment goes smoothly. It's very nerve wracking when you are in there xxx

Syl, I'm so glad it's not been too painful for you. 
 

yes, the kids are now on half term so I'm sure I will be occupied up until my appointment, will try to move it to the back of my mind until then. That's a good idea, I might just do that, who knows though, although my area is quite low at the moment they might not want to risk it. 
 

thankyou xx

Thank you.

Oh that will definately keep you busy, enjoy the half term. Yes give them a call, worth an ask. And if they say no then atleast you can mentally prepare yourself to go in alone. Perhaps have whoever you would have liked with you that day on stand by and message between the different stages of the appointment? Or ask if they could perhaps join in the consultation virtually over the phone/video call. I know they won't be able to hold your hand but they can be the emotional support and hear what is said xx

Oh that's a really good idea too, I may have to do that of the first option is not allowed. Hopefully it will come around quick and I will have some answers, or closer to some answers xx

They can't deny you of the virtual support surely? 

Give them a call and find out. Fingers crossed for you.

Yes I think the appointment helps give you an indicator. There's still the worry if you then have to wait for biopsy results. But its an indicator and a step closer to the answer xx

Hi @jolamine, 

Just popping on to update you following my biopsy results appointment today. 

It turns out it was just a fibroadenoma. Obviously very relieved. 

Just wanted to message you to say thank you for all your support, it has been so valuable to me. I really do appreciate it. I really wish you all the best for your future and thank you for the kindness you have shown on here, to me and many others xxx

Hi Syl,

Thank you for your update. This is fantastic news - I am delighted for you and, know just how relieved you must feel.

It's always great to get some good news on the forum

Kind regards,

Jolamine xx

Thank you, honestly from the bottom of my heart thank you. I've seen you comment on so many members posts and you're always so reassuring and thoughtful. xx

Hi Syl,

Thank you so much for your kind comments. I reply to posts because I still remember just how scared I was 11 years ago and, I got some great support from others on this forum.

Jolamine xx

Hi Syl,

Thank you so much for your kind comments. I reply to posts because I still remember just how scared I was 11 years ago and, I got some great support from others on this forum.

Jolamine xx

Its so lovely to have spoken to people who know exactly how you feel xx