Urgent Referall - worried sick !!!

Hi everyone,

Just thought I'd post here in the hope of getting some reassurance. I know there is much worse going on but my anxiety and over thinking nature has gotten the best of me! 

A friend of mine diagnosed with melanoma last summer & at that point I decided to check my moles (I'm covered in them on my upper body!) there were 2 that stood out in particular (one on stomach & one on breast) the stomach one, in my option, looked much worse so I thought best to get them checked. Due to Covid I had to send pics to my Gp who then said everything looked fine. 
 

as previously said I have a tendency to over think and worry about things so again I phoned my gp as I was still concerned about both moles (irregular shapes, 2 colours, large diameters). This time she referred me to hospital to get pictures taken of the one on my breast. I then received an urgent referral to go to see a dermatologist. My app is not for another week so I'm sitting here making myself worried sick at the thought it could be something sinister ! I'm making myself ill by constantly googling images & convinced myself it can't be nothing that they've got in touch with me so quickly!

 

apologies for the long post but just really needed to get it all off My chest as friends & family sick of me going on & on ! 
 

Amy xx 

  • Hi Amy,

    Firstly, step away from Dr Google - it's out of date and focuses only on the worse case scenarios.

    When it comes to looking at moles, the NICE guidance tells GPs to arrange for photos to be taken at the hospital for a dermatologist to look at, or for a direct referral to a dermatologist if the GP is unsure about a mole. In your case, the first option was chosen - those photos were then viewed by the dermatologist. At that point the dermatologist couldn't tell for sure, from a photo, that your mole looked completely normal - if they have any doubt they have to err on the side of caution & look at the mole in the flesh. At this point they will examine it using a dermascope which shows them if the cell structure of the mole is changing. If it isn't they will discharge you as your mole is benign. If there appears to be changes they will arrange for it to be removed for biopsy - a biopsy being the only way to tell why the cells are changing.

    Results can take one of three forms - the mole is completely benign, or it's dysplastic (atypical) or it's malignant. Most results show option one or two. A dysplastic mole is one that exhibits irregularities (the ABCDE rule) but it's actually benign. However, dysplastic moles have the ability to turn malignant in the future so they prefer to ensure they've been removed & they monitor any other moles to ensure they are not dysplastic too.

    I know that you will be thinking about what your friend has gone through but try not to associate your experience with theirs as every melanoma & every melanoma patient's experience is different. The good thing is that you are being pro-active and it's being checked out thoroughly. Good luck and please let us know how you get on,

    Angie (melanoma patient)