Worried sick

I would really appreciate if someone can advice me as ive been worried sick for months!

So it all started with me having an abortion, ive been adviced not to have sex with my partner for 2 weeks but ended up having sex 4 days after. Sraight after that i started getting strong craping under my tummy, the pain hasent gone away since! the next day i had large clots come out of me. My discharge was bloody sometimes or watery its not bloody now but still watery.!sometimes it looks like ive peed my self! I also have a lot of rubling in tummy all the time, pain in my lower back lots of spotting with periods and different color period to what it used to besometimes very light pink and sometimes black. ive noticed a change in my urine color, it always used to be  normal yellow and now its very pale yellow sometimes even clear like water color. I ve had so much antibiotics trough out that time doctors thinking it could be infection. Then i had 3 transvaginal ultrasound because they found a simple cyst on one of my ovaries so they had to monitor because it was not going away and its still there now, but they said its nothing to worry about. I  had kidney ultrasound which didn't show nothing as well. The doctor told me she doest think it's nothing major and that ill be referred to gynaecologist but it will take 4 months which is ridiculous! I've also had a stool test that showed infection which i took antibiotics for. Also when i need to go the big toilet i have to asap as i cant hold it like i used to.I suffer with major anxiety and depression and the past few months is been like a living hell for me! Sorry for the long post and would really appreciate any advice! Thank you so much 

  • Hello anita88,

    A warm welcome to Cancer Chat. Poor you you certainly have gone through a lot recently. It's reassuring that your kidney ultrasound didn't show anything and that your ovarian cyst is nothing to worry about. 

    4 months is a very long time to have to wait for your gynaecology referral even though it is a good sign that your doctor thinks it is nothing major. It might be worth talking to your GP again about all this, in particular about these bowel issues you mentioned. You could also mention to your doctor that the past few months have been really difficult for you mentally and that you suffer from major anxiety and depression. I am sure they will be able to help you control this if you feel it has got worse. 

    I hope you manage to get some answers  to all these problems and that you feel a lot better soon. 

    Best wishes, 

    Lucie, Cancer Chat Moderator