Post menopausal with ongoing pelvic problems

Hello all,

Heres my blog, five years ago I was diagnosed with aggressive invasive breast cancer, two mastectomies and this Friday I’m having a phone consultation which they said would be my last one?

im looking for some positive advice regarding my current pelvic problems! 19 months ago the breast cancer team passed me onto the gynaecology department as scans identified I had and still do have a 7 cm by 7 cm adnexal mass which has been reported as a degenerating subserosal fibroid growing on the rear outside part of my womb. This has grown since first scan in 2018. Whilst under the gynaecologist I’ve had to date ca125 tests x 3 times, 3 ultra sounds most recent one done a month ago in October 2020 and a CT scan February 2020. All have said nothing sinister despite growth and I’m 58 no periods for 6 years? Following the recent ultrasound internal and on the belly has shown new things which are bilateral multioculared cystic lesions plus the fibroid I knew about, these cystic lesions have never been mentioned on previous scans . My ca125 is over the cut off also and my RMI result is 333 the cut off being 250 as quoted in NICE guidelines and the pathways that should be taken!!, I had been put in for a routine mri scan but following my chasing today this scan has been marked as now urgent!! This last 19 months I’ve had to chase so much regarding my pelvic health as the consultant I’m under I’ve never seen but keep receiving his letters which contradict previous ones making the whole experience as utter mind worrying angst. I feel that during this last 19 months I have been neglected in parts and I now am very anxious that I could well have ovarian cancer when if they had acted previously due to my age etc things may not have become possibly a negative outcome. Has anyone been fobbed off and been through this experience, Pals had to help me last December as I was put in for an urgent mri then but it was rejected by a radiologist because 6 months prior I had an mri scan whilst the breast unit were checking things. The fight was on again and because of Pals  they booked me in for a CT scan which just followed by a letter saying nothing sinister. I’m very bloated, I look pregnant, lots of pelvic cramps and discomfort in my back passage, I know something has changed with my insides but no one is doing anything curative, just being messed about. Thank you for any advice or similar experiences. Oooh by the way the consultant I’m under despite never seeing him only works part time and never seems to be in so there is no one picking up the pieces and I feel I’m falling through the holes in the nhs system xxxx

  • Hi Fanny,

     

    I am so sorry to hear about your on going issues. Not to dismiss how hard doctors and nurses have been working recently, but unfortunately I have also lost a lot of faith in the NHS system.

     

    I am sorry I don't have any direct advise, but can definitely relate to how you a feeling right now. I had a severe heavy vaginal bleed in May this year, right in the midst of lockdown. It lasted for 8 days and was not my period. I was told I couldn't have my smear done (because these had been cancelled over lockdown), so the doctor had a quick look at my cervix said it looked healthy and told me that she would refer me for a pelvic ultrasound in case it was womb/ovary related. It took a further 4 months for this to happen. I wasn't told until a month after the ultrasound that they couldn't even see my ovaries during the scan! Which to me seems a ridiculous thing not to mention, considering I was there to check my ovaries in the first place. Fortunately the bleeding hasn't come back, but I now have a persistent full abdominal pain and nausea. I don't know if these are related to the gynae issues, but I feel so stressed. I have spoken to several GPs who have consistently told me that they don't want to refer me as waiting lists are currently 'too long'. If they had referred me when I first asked I would probably be just about ready to go for scans now. Instead I have got nowhere with them and will have to pay for private scans. I know the NHS are under a lot of pressure right now but I can't help but feel very let down. 
     

    I do hope you manage to get the answers you are looking for. It is the awful feeling of hopelessness and constant worrying that is the worst part  xx

  • Morning AllyO, thank you for your reply.... yes that feeling of hopelessness and being consumed with worry is horrid, the mind gets taken over. Well let’s hope we will be cared for in good time before anything goes in a different direction. I did actually speak with a private service this week and was told that everyone is going down this route due to nhs being  inadequate and they have a big backlog privately, so there is not much help out there currently ..... I am concerned not so much of what it could be as I’ve been on the cancer journey before but the fact that no one is doing much talking and being uninformed is worse. I do get that the NHS is over stretched but it’s been going this way long before COVID appeared and is so convenient to be used as the reason for failings but I personally believe the service is crumbling fast and things will change for us all regarding health and it’s resolve. Maybe I’m being a pessimist but this is what I feel and see. Watch this space. I hope you get your pelvic problem addressed soon and that things turn out ok ..... onwards and upwards we go, take care xxx