I found a tiny amount of blood on toilet paper after wiping myself started menopause about 1 year ago with no problems and never suffered period pains either. Called gp who told me to come in that day and bring  a urine sample. She asked me a few questions about history of cancer in my family then mentioned my grandad. She clearly had me mixed up with another patient ! 

She then went on to examine me and said she could see some blood and also the stick thing for urine sample showed blood.  She said I would get an appt within 2 weeks but it looked like it was cancer :-(

My appt is this afternoon which is excatly 2 weeks to the day of my doctors appt and also my daughters 13th birthday.

I have hardly slept for 2 weeks and cant stop crying