Should I cancel my breast clinic appointment?

I am 47yrs old and found a lump in my left breast a few weeks into lock down whilst showering but just contacted my doctor 2wks ago who rather than see me, referred me to the breast clinic due to my family history, (mum is 1 of 3 sisters who all had BC in late 40s) 1 died from it, 1 has gone on to have cervical cancer and  the other has blood cancer and is being tested for cervical cancer as we speak. Thing is the lump I have seems to be smaller than before so sure it's nothing to worry about, should I cancel my appointment as I would feel like a total fraud taking up an appointment that a genuine person could be using?  I am a single mum and have no one to talk this over with, I don't want my parents to worry as they have enough going on right now. Any advice would be appreciated.

  • Hi

    You've got the appointment and you should go. 

    They would rather you go and get checked than you cancel and it be something that could grow and eventually spread.

    Especially with your family history.

    Please go, if it is anything, the sooner found the best chance of being cured. 

    I think the fact that it seems to have shrunk a little is good but you never know. x

  • Morning SM12,

     

    Please still attend your appointment, even if it's just to put your mind at rest. You will never be wasting time to get something checked.

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    I do understand, I am due to be seen at the breast clinic on the 5th of October. I have a lump but no family history (although no older female relatives). I am only 38 and although small chested and lumpy breasts, I have one lump that feels different. I too spoke to my GP over the phone and she referred me without a face to face visit. 

     

    I keep thinking I'm wasting a valuable NHS appointment, but I know I need to out my mind at rest.

     

    Please still attend, especially with your family history.

     

     

  • Thank you very much I really appreciate everyone's replies.  It's hard to know what to do for the best, I'm just very conscious of wasting the hospitals time especially during the pandemic but after reading what each of you have said maybe I should keep the appointment, it will put my mind put to rest even if I do feel like a fraud.

     

    Good luck to all of you who are also about to be screened, may god/spirit keep you safe xx

  • Please also update us. When is your appointment? I'll be thinking of you. I really do hope that you attend xx

  • Hi. I had a lump, swelling and tenderness in my breast. The swelling went down and i already had an appointment with the breast clinic. Part of me was really tempted to give it a miss but i knew i had to get the other symptoms checked. Mine turned out to be breast cancer and because i had left it a while to get checked it had grown quite large and at one point it was looking like it could be secondary. Im not saying yours will be cancer, most breast lumps are beniegn. But like others have said, you should still be checked for your peace of mind. I regret leaving mine so long because the chemo has to shrink quite a large tumour now! I really hope your appointment goes well and i think its a good sign that the lump has shrunk anyway. I had another breast lump a year ago which turned out to be a fibroademona (sorry, my spellings bad lol). 

  • The clinic would never think anyone had wasted their time.

    Please go or you will always be thinking about it.

    I have friends who have come through breast cancer and they're are so many different symptoms.

    Some had pain, some had no pain at all. Some had a lump and one lady was diagnosed after a routine mammogram, was told it was the size of a grain of sand and would have taken quite a while to grow into a lump that could be felt.

    Let us know how you get on x

  • Hi everyone, thank you all for your encouragement and kind understanding, it's made me realise that it's in my best interests to go to my appt and that I'd probably worry even more if if I didn't.  My appointment is scheduled for 7th October so time enough for me to get used to the idea. 

     

    BellaBall, I'll l be thinking of you too, good luck for 5th xx

     

  • Thank you. I'm sure we will both be fine, just be good to hear it from a professional. Feel free to message me in the meantime if you want to chat x

  • Well my appointment is tomorrow and I'm convinced mine has shrunk a fair bit. My husband, who I still haven't told but asked him to feel, couldn't find any lump at all. 

    Do I cancel and free up a valuable space? 

  • You must go, for peace of mind.

    Imagine how you would feel if it was something and you didn't go and 6, 12 months down the line it was something and had spread.

    It's too late now to give it to someone else.

    Please please go.... just in case x