Hello Redbootz, 

I hope you won't have to wait too long for your little one's ultrasound. I can imagine it must be a very stressful time for you while waiting to find out more. Don't feel awful - I know myself exactly what it's like to have a child who doesn't let you do her hair so it would have been very easy to miss that hard gland. 

I know it is really hard but try not to worry too much or anticipate what it might be. The best thing to do to avoid thinking too much about this is to keep busy and distracted if you can and avoid looking things up online. I can imagine it is hard for you to do this at the moment but it will help you feel a little less anxious. 

I hope you will also hear from others here who have been through all this before and that they will be along soon to share their story with you. 

Keeping everything crossed for you that everything turns out fine. 

Best wishes, 

Lucie, Cancer Chat Moderator