Told I have breast cancer without biopsy results

Morning, 

I went to the breast clinic yesterday after finding a dent in my left breast. I could feel a lumpish bit too away from the dent. I was examined and sent for ultrasound. As soon as the very lovely male radiologist put the probe on my breast he said, no we need mammograms first. So after 6 mammograms of both breasts I return to have my ultrasound. The male radiologist was with another female radiologist too this time, and said he has found a lesion and needs to biopsy it so they can see what treatment will best cure it. I then asked the dreaded question, is it cancer? To which he nodded. When I asked if he was sure he took my hand and tilted his head then went on to say how the surgeons were amazing and everything would be OK. After 2 more mammograms on my left breast, I then saw the breast surgeon who said the radiologist had graded my lump as 5, meaning cancer. I have biopsy results next Wednesday.

Could they be wrong? Could it still be benign? I lost my dear Mum to pancreatic cancer in January this year, so to put my poor family through this again after a roller-coaster year is terrifying. I am 36 with 2 boys and a stepson, and I feel responsible for looking after my family after the loss of my Mum, I'm worried who will look after them all if I have to have treatment etc.

Sorry for waffling on!

Rachael

  • Thanks so much for your reply Moonpuddle. 

    So sorry to hear you were told on your first appointment it was cancer, even when things don't feel right it must still be quite a shock. 

    My Mum had amazing strength and I will draw on that if this is indeed cancer. 

    I think I am just second guessing myself as I went to the appointment alone and am wondering whether I heard everything right and didn't get the wrong end of the stick. They did say to me to bring someone with me on Wednesday as there will be alot of information and paperwork.

    Rachael

  • You're exactly right Moon puddle. Thank you ️

  • Hi Rachael 

    The waiting and the worrying is the worst bit. The lady who did my scan and biopsy didn't actually tell me mine was cancer but she didn't say it wasn't.  At that point I knew it was. From then until I got my results was one of the worst bits of my journey. From thinking the worst, who's going to look after my kids etc etc. 

    then when they give you the dreaded news they always have a plan of action which is positive. Once you know how to tackle it you'll be surprised how strong you will be. Everyone's journey is different but we all have one big thing in common, we want to live. 
    mom Sharon, I got diagnosed in May with a grade 3 triple negative breast cancer. I also have the BRAC2 gene mutation.  I'm half way through my chemo intact I'm going this afternoon for my new stuff called paclitaxel. 
    please message me if you need to vent or ask any questions.  
    now put some music on or go for a walk/jog or do a bit or gardening whatever you can to free you mind for a while.

    good luck and let us know how it goes 

    Sharon x

  • Thanks so much for your reply Sharon. So sorry you're having to deal with this horrible disease. Wishing you well for the remainder of your treatment.

    I'll keep you updated as to what Wednesday brings. 

    Rachael x

  • I was told there and then, I had a sonigram then biopsy, but they then sent me for a deep core biopsy. 

    They knew it was cancer just not what stage and grade, waiting was hell. X

  • So sorry to hear that Annemcc, how are you doing now?

    I agree, waiting is hell! Last night I barely slept and I have a constant sick to my stomach feeling. I just want to know for sure.

    Rachael x

  • Moon puddle you are so kind ️ 

    I think I feel worse today because I got a letter this morning from NHS e-referral saying my appointment has been cancelled, but I'm not sure if they mean this Wednesdays one or another one! I can't ring the breast clinic as it's closed over weekends, so I'll call Monday morning. I'm dreading hearing I'll have to wait longer for my results. Thank goodness for work on Monday which will keep me busy!

    Rachael x

  • Hey.

    I got the all clear in January this year, which is great.

    Hang in there, it sounds daft but once you know what your dealing with, and treatment it's easier.

    Good luck, try not to worry to much, easier said than done I know, put your trust in your team x Scottish hugs coming your way xx

  • Annemcc congratulations on your all clear! That's wonderful!

    Today I'm having a bbq with my family and I'm going to try and not think about it at all. 

    Whatever happens, if I've got half the strength my Mumma had, I know I'll be absolutely fine.

    Have a great day xx

  • Hey,

    I hope you're all OK? 

    I've been to my appointment today and diagnosed with grade 3 ductal breast cancer that is er+. Still awaiting her2 test result. 

    I forgot to ask what makes my cancer grade 3, I will probably phone my nurse tomorrow to check if I can.

    Doesn't seem real and I keep thinking they've made a mistake! 

    Rachael xx