Hey!
im 24 with a 20 month old!
ive had this mole on my vulvar for a while and never really thought anything of it. It's dark seems circular not too big not not a tiny dot either.. on the left minora area and I always thought it was odd as the sun doesn't go there haha!! But my partner has one on his genitalia too but the outside And so I didn't think much more of it. I can't remember when I first noticed it like it's blank in my head.. but I feel like it was there before I had my son in December 2018 but I'm doubting myself now I really cannot remember.. my memory has completely gone.
anyways someone in a health anxiety group I'm on mentioned vulvar cancer and now I've googled and worrying as I can't find much on moles just genetically found in this area... the colour is dark dark brown almost black. Maybe half a cm in diameter I'm not sure.
the prognosis for this kind of thing online is apparently not so great, I had a smear in April and I'm not sure if they would have noticed in then or if they'd even have checked that area but I'm starting to worry.
i have got a few lymph nodes im my armpit (left side) my neck pretty much left side and teeny one in collar bone which doctors brush off and aren't worried by but they haven't gone, one is painful right under my jaw and the others are uncomfortable too. I'm worried it's all connected now. I'm obviously going to call the doctor and ask them to check it out but wondering if anyone had anything similar in mean time ? X