Breast lump, pain and size difference

So I posted about a month or so saying i discovered a lump In my breast. 
I'm 21 which is young for this kinda thing I know but I feel like I'm not being taken seriously by my doctor with my concerns. 
 

She keeps telling me to wait 3 weeks every time she calls and tells me to see if anything changes. Though things ARE changing and she shrugs it off and sends me links to websites.  
 

it's been nearly two months and I've still not been referred for a scan and things seem to be getting worse. My breast with the lump in is slightly bigger than my normal breast. It hurts, The pain in my breast is pretty constant and heavy and my skin will sometimes be red around the lump area , the lump feels like it changes weirdly.. one day it can be hard the next it will be softer I've also been feeling under the weather.  
I'm having panic attacks nearly every day because I'm terrified of it being cancer and being too late for diagnosis. 
My doctor just tells me constantly that this can be normal for my age and it's wrecking me ! Something isn't right and I'm not being listened to

  • Hello Chloeang

    I'm sorry to hear that you are dealing with some concerns around a breast lump at the moment. It's understandable that you're feeling worried. 

    If you're not happy with the response you've had from your GP you could ask for a second opinion from another GP in the surgery or speak to the practice manager to explain how you feel about the information that you've been given. 

    In the meantime try to stay positive. Your GP is correct in saying that it's not uncommon for young women to have lumpy breasts and even amongst those women who are referred to breast clinic, the large majority are not diagnosed with breast cancer. Keeping focused on those may help with your anxiety whilst you're waiting to see a Dr. 

    If you'd like to speak to one of our nurses about your concerns then do give them a call on 0808 800 4040, Monday to friday 9am to 5pm. 

    I hope that you have some reassuring news soon.

    Best wishes,
    Jenn
    Cancer Chat moderator