Hi,

im sorry you're going through this. I've got an urgent gynaecologist app on Thursday for abnormal bleeding. So know how you feel :(

whst type of scan are you having, an ultrasound scan? Is the lump in your tummy?

try not to worry as there are lots of diff reasons and the lump doesn't necessarily mean cancer, but they are acting quickly to rule that out for you. I hope you get your app through ASAP and stay strong and take each day at a time x

Hi ya all the doctor said was a scan to see how big it is, they also want to see why my stomach is so bloated and why it's so hard. 
 

what abnormal bleeding are you having? 
 

I just feel so cruel because I'm in pain most days so the kids aren't getting my attention xx

I'm having like a dark brown type blood/discarge and pain after sex. 
I also suffer with bloating from IBS :(.

sounds like the will be doing an ultrasound to have a look at your tummy.

im 36 so similar age to you and I just feel exhausted worrying. Don't be too hard on yourself though, your kids will be ok and you just need to concentrate on yourself and take sometime. I hope you get your app through soon x