Been referred to breast clinic

i have been reading through everyone’s posts and it has helped calm my anxiety to know that not everyone gets diagnosed with breast cancer I have a lump in my armpit and nipple dishcharge my doctor reckons it could be from having a baby within the last year but because of family history I have to get referred i am so scared and can’t stop crying and don’t like to tell my family as they worry more then me 

  • Hello 

    ive been trying to keep busy but it’s hard I still have it on my mind all day how are you? 

    I was at doctors Thursday and got a letter Friday saying that if the breast clinic don’t call me by Monday then I can call them to book it the waiting is hard

     

    jess 

  • Hi lovely 

     

    I hope it is a good outcome for us both! It’s easy for People to say try not to worry but it’s not as easy as that you just have to try keep yourself busy I cried all day yesterday and I keep getting teary every time I think of it :(

     

    its even scarier when your a mum and just can’t imagine getting sick or termially ill just have to stay brave for your little boy I hope he has a lovely birthday! My little boy is ten months old 

     

    I am the same since I have been doctors I’ve been getting pains in my breasts and up to my neck and I don’t know if it’s just because I’m so paranoid because I didn’t have them before going doctors 

     

    Jess xx

  • Yes!! Ive been getting pains up to my neck too, perhaps i had them before and didn't notice them but now i notice every single bit of pain.  

     

    let me know how you get on xx

  • Hi,

    Any news?

    if you didn't hear anything, have you chased?

    ive put in a friend request because there are so many new additions it's hard to find you!

    izzie

     

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    no news yet hun I rang the breast clinic today and the woman who answered said they have my referral and there still waiting for a slot to fit me in so they will ring in next couple of days I just want to get it over with I just feel sick with worry everyday :( I seem to Be getting short tempered with the people i love most hope your doing better 

     

    Jess x

  • Jess,

    Keep strong I know it is very hard!

    Yes I'm really stroppy too, but am also cross other people are so selfish and can't try and accept how you are feeling.

    hugs

    Izzie

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    are you still having pains in your neck? Mine is still there and it’s driving me crazy I’ve started getting spots on ny jaw neck chest and breasts I think the stress is making me break out! But I’m so paranoid that some spots ain’t spots there lumps my appointment is the 16th so I’ve still got a week of worrying myself sick whenever I eat I start thinking about if it’s bad news and it just puts me off my food because I feel so sick :( 

  • Hello

     

    Thank you hugs back To you! 

    I’ve not told many people but the people i have told they just seem to be ignoring it and acting like I’m fine when inside I’m not fine at all I feel like crying everyday and ive started to lose weight from not having a appetite 

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    yes im still getting pains, but I dont know if im just being paranoid about it. 
     

    my appointment is on the 16th too. I spoke to the nurse on the phone today and she said if the scan is ok and I dont need a biopsy i will know on the day of everything is ok. If I do need a biopsy its another 10 days for the results

  • Jess,

    No news yet?

    What a Nightmare this is I'm  looking out for the postie more intently than for birthdays or Christmas just want an appointment!

     

    really stroppy tonight! Just given Amazon customer services a hard time for not delivering my promised gin!

    keep smiling and sharing.

    Izzie