New moles

Hi, I'm 23 years of age. On Friday night my arm was itching, I had a look and there is a mole which isn't symmetrical, it has different shades of brown, itches and is raised. I am really scared now, I didn't sleep well last night and I'm not tonight either, I wish it was Monday so I can go to the doctors. My back has been itching as well lately but I thought nothing of it at the time, I had a look in the mirror and I have got loads of new moles. I am so scared right now I can't help but think the worst. I'm 23 and have hardly lived yet. I tried speaking to my dad but he just said don't be ridiculous so I feel like I can't speak to him again. The world just seems very scary all of sudden with the risk of death staring at me whether it be coronavirus, cancer or anything else. I am just really really panicking, my brain is working overtime on all this. Does anyone have anyways of relaxing or calming down? 

  • Hi NinaRoger,

     

    I can understand your anxiety but take a few deep breaths and think about what may have changed recently. Firstly, are you sure they are moles? Have you been sunbathing recently? They may possibly be freckles due to sun exposure. Have you been using a new sunscreen that may be causing an allergic reaction? Or have you changed your washing powder/conditioner/shower gel or anything similar that may cause an allergic reaction & itching? The mole on your arm - is that new or an existing one that you think has changed?

     

    The reason I ask this is because lots of things can cause itching. To have itching on your arm & back would not mean the marks/moles are cancerous - cancerous moles never occur at the same time as they are caused by UV damage over a period of time. Many people who have a melanoma never get another one and those that do usually get them several years apart. They are not like a rash where they spread. So I'm wondering if your new, itchy ones on the back are an allergic rash. For the moment try using a soothing agent on them - after sun, a good moisturiser or calamine cream, to see if they improve.

     

    The one on your arm - if it's an existing one that has changed in appearance, get it checked out with your GP but there is every chance it's fine. At your age there is less chance it's something serious and, if it's a new mole, it's common for young adults to get new one. Your GP may ask you to send photos of your arm & back moles & they will then decide if it's an easily treatable skin condition or if it needs further examination by a dermatologist. Don't panic if they refer you to see one - 75% of patients who are referred are given a clean bill of health so the odds that your moles are fine are good.

     

    Meanwhile, to try & ease your anxiety make sure you don't Google (it's old information and only gives worse case scenarios). Keep busy doing something you enjoy - try meditation or mindfulness (lots on YouTube), go for a walk in the fresh air, anything to distract yourself from worrying. 

     

    Good luck and please let us know how you get on,

     

    Angie (melanoma patient)