Hi everyone. 
I have been seeing my boyfriend for 9 months, we don't live together. All was going well until around two to three weeks ago until he started texting me less and not arranging to come see me and or me to come see him.   I thought he didn't love me anymore and I was becoming increasingly insecure. I met him one night to find out what's going on and he told me he may have skin cancer and is currently getting it seen to. I don't think he wanted to tell me and he has t told anyone else. I feel bad now.  I don't think this is the full extent of the story as he has been quite unwell the last few months. But least he told me and I can try and help/listen when he needed.  
I don't want to push him into anything or make him talk if he doesn't want to but for some reason he will go see his friends but not me and I don't understand why and how to deal with it. I love him so much but I want to know what the right thing to do is, for him. 
thank you reading. Xx