Is pain a good sign?? Grasping at straws for my mum!!

Hi all. Newbie here. 

So my mum has been quite I'll recently with Jaw and Ear pain, (since before lockdown) and FINALLY went to a dr about it last week who told her she needed to have a biopsy yesterday.

my younger brother (who lives with her) is the one who told me all of this - (I thought I had a fairly good relationship with my mum - I am eldest child so I dont know why she hasnt told me?).

Anyway, we find out the results in two weeks and apparently the dr said that the fact that she is in pain is a good sign????? 

I don't  know whether my mum has made that up for my brother to tell me so that I don't freak out

(I'm already freaking out - you may be able to tell??)

I'm presuming they are looking at mouth, jaw and possibly ear cancer as a possibility but has ANYONE ever found that to be true; that consistent pain is a good sign in these cases? All I'm seeing is pain is a symptom.

 

  • Hi newbie,  not many people have pain related to cancer 2hichw is one reason of late diagnosis.  My husband had no pain, just a cough and it was five months before he was finally diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer but still no pain.  So the doctor is right in what he said.  I hope all goes well with Mum, she probably didn't want you to worry, our Mum's know us well.  Carol x 

  • Thank you for replying to this post. We found out today that my mum has mouth cancer. She is having an OP on 6/7/20 but I dont know much more than that. I'm in shock but also I was kindof expecting the news