i have a lump on the outer side of my vulva kind of near my leg. it is slightly purple and moveable. i tried draining it and puss came out and started to hurt a little and i'm scared i have cancer, as well as anxiety. i also don't feel comfortable with telling anyone, also my mum works at a gp where she has to sort and write records and don't want her finding out. what do i do?? :(