Worried sick

My husband is awaiting his biopsy results this is biopsy number 3 they have done numerous scans ct mri and he has had his lymph node removal on his neck they have told us they suspect it is cancer but can't find it he's lost so much weight he went from 19 st down to 13 he's constantly itching to the point he's making his skin bleed he's started to turn yellow and constantly tired rang his nurses today to be told his last biopsy results are not back from the specialist, just worried by the time they do find it he's not going to be well enough for treatment he's only 55 

  • Hi Gina

    I don't really have any advice but I didn't want your post to go unanswered.

    Do you know when the biopsy results will be coming in? I know it's so hard to look at any positives, and I don't know what to suggest apart from try to take each day as it comes. Hopefully this biopsy will be conclusive and your husband can start the next part of his treatment.

    When I feel overwhelmed I find sitting outside quietly helps, focusing on breathing in for two slow counts, hold for two slow counts, and release for two slow counts.

    Wishing you and your partner a restful day and conclusive results soon x