Hi all
I've read so many lovely reassuring posts on here so I thought I'd ask for some insight and advice!
I went to the GP two weeks ago in relation to eczema on the breast that had spread to the nipple (I get boob eczema a lot just not on the nipple before). I thought I'd mention some breast tenderness as well that I'd noticed for a few weeks. Not expecting anything of it, I was a bit shocked when he referred me to the breast clinic. I don't have a lump, theres no history in my family and I've just turned 30.
I had my appointment yesterday and I dont know how to process it. Someone examined me and said there wasnt anything to worry about but I might as well be scanned because I'm here. Easy peasy; I was expecting to be given the all clear and back to work by lunchtime. However they found an abnormality (a mass of some kind) in a milk duct which they then biopsied. The consultant said it was likely a papilloma but might need surgery, and the radiographer did say it could be lots of different things but they won't know until they get the results. However I've gone from I've got an itchy boob to they found a 'something' and I'm now having to wait 2-3 weeks for an appointment to hear the results. To make matters worse my husband has really bad anxiety and he's kind of shutting down (his aunt passed away of breast cancer over Christmas and all he can think about is me dying).
I thought I was being rational and calm about it (I'll find out when I find out and I might as well carry on as normal) but I'm working from home this afternoon and the idea of not knowing for several weeks while managing someone else's anxiety has gotten a bit much. Any thoughts on how to manage the waiting? What helped you get through it? And any tips on the husband! :p