Mole Removal and Overthinking

Hi, 

 

so a couple of weeks ago I went to my GP with a mole I've had for at least a few years. I am in my early 20s, have never been on a sunbed and had very few sunburns that were by no means blistering. As the mole is in my belly button I cannot remember when I first saw it and what it looked like as it's such a hard to see area. The GP on first inspection said it looked like a normal mole, after looking through a dermascope he suggested that it had different colours and so referred me to a dermatologist - he thought that it was more than likely that the dermatologist would tell me it was nothing to worry about. 
Fast forward a week and the dermatologist had a look. She agreed that it was "irregular in colour" and "atypical". She said that sometimes moles that grow in areas like the scalp or the belly button are often atypical because it's a different type of skin there. I asked her if she thought it was fine and she answered that she didn't believe it to be melanoma but is scheduling for it's removal and testing anyway. She said it was best removing it. She then handed me a little booklet about skin cancer and pointed to the picture of a melonama varying in colour and said mine most identifies with that one because of its variation in colour. I told her I'd been very worried over the last week waiting for the appointment and she then said she hoped I was feeling reassured. 
 

I keep overthinking the fact that the dermatologist didn't say she thought it wasn't melanoma until I asked her if she thought it was ok, handing me a skin cancer leaflet and organising its removal and biopsy. 
sorry for the long post but needed to vent my worries 

  • Hi,

    It's very rare for a consultant to stick their neck out and say if they think that something is definitely NOT melanoma as they have been known to be wrong (thankfully it's rare)! Only a biopsy can give a 100% correct diagnosis so that's why they 'sit on the fence' until the biopsy results confirm their initial thoughts. Melanoma can present in lots of different ways - some moles look dodgy but turn out to be fine whilst some look fine but are actually dodgy so it's very difficult for a consultant, even one with years of experience! I've had 7 dodgy moles/lesions removed since my melanoma was diagnosed - some of these my consultant was unsure about, one was close to the site of my melanoma and the last one was thought to be basal cell carcinoma. They all turned out to be benign for cancer! That's how difficult it is & they leave it up to the biopsy results!

    The odds that yours is benign or atypical are very much in your favour so don't spend your time overthinking it - it's time you waste that you can't get back & the worry may be for nothing. Good luck with the removal & results. Please let us know how you get on,

    Angie (Stage 3 melanoma patient)

  • Hello - I'm going through something similar.

    I've had the excisions performed and I am in this awful waiting period for biopsy results.

    I'm terrified to tell the truth as I had a similar experience to your appointment with the dermatologist - and then the plastic surgeon who performed the surgery two weeks after the appointment with the dermatologist emphatically told me that one of the two moles scheduled for removal "has to come off" and that he wouldn't let me leave without taking it off.

    His reaction completely freaked me out to the point I've been unwell with stress and the stress of waiting for the results.  As far as I was aware, I'd always had that particular mole so now I've been stressed with the potential that I've had a melanoma for potentially years undetected.

    Please keep us updated.