What is happening?

I have a lump that is so far cannot be diagnosed, I have had a ultrasound and mri, both "inconclusive", oncologist said he dosent suspect anything sinister due to my age and symptoms, but in the last 6 weeks I have swollen lymph nodes and the lump is becoming more painful, I now have to wait a biopsy in a specialist sarcoma unit. Going out of my mind here, I am so young, what can I do? Who can I talk to? If it looked more benign on scans then why not just remove it? I have no one to tell my oncoming symptoms too, sarcoma soft tissue cancer should look like apparently a very aggressive type of cancer, so why can't they diagnose this either way, do I fall somewhere in the middle? 

  • Thank you so much for replying to me, I have a huge lump in my upper arm, the doctors told me it was a cyst and scans have comfirmed it is definitely not a fatty lump or cyst and that between the 2 weeks of my ultrasound and mri it has grown, the swollen lymph node I only noticed since the doctor asked me if I had any swollen lymph nodes so no idea how long it has been there! I also have been feeling very unwell and chest pains considering what they are looking for it's very hard not to be worried, I have young children, the only thing that keeps me positive is this couldn't happen to me with young babies and it is so rare, my mum was diagnosed with cancer herself 3 months ago, it's all so much!