Terrified I have cancer

Hi

I'm a 49 year old women and absolutely terrified that i have cancer. I have a sore lump in my gum which I have seen dentist about and they have sent for an urgent referral which was 8 days ago...i still have no word of an appointment.  My glands at my neck seem swollen also.... im crying all the time cant sleep on edge and just terrified.... also no one to talk to  x

  • Hi,

     

    I actually have had the same thing, is it on your gum/ teeth line? I got referred to the hospital and the lady actually said it was a granuloma (think that's the correct spelling, think it can be caused by hormones etc) and that it's nothing serious. I actually still have it 8 years later and it bleeds if I knock it but they said if they removed it it could grow back, and it doesn't cause harm but I probably will have it removed eventually.

     

    i hope it's something benign like a granuloma as they are very common. I'd chase the dentist for your referral, and I hope all goes well x

  • Thank you. Im hoping that it's something similar too. I feel so worried and anxious and think ive basically convinced myself it's cancer! I can't sleep, think straight or stop crying... going into my 9th day ,since referral,without any word of an appointment . Spoke to dental reception who said that it could take weeks but surely not .x

  • I believe urgent referral if they suspect cancer is an app within 2 weeks. I'd take that as they're not too concerned! I know it's so hard waiting it's actually the worst part. My mum was diagnosed with breast cancer and waiting felt like the longest time of my life. I know when you convince yourself it's something it's so hard to get it out of your head.

     

    I hope you get your appointment through soon, try not to worry yourself or google because it can convince us of all sorts, I know it's difficult when we're anxious, as I'm guilty of this too. Glands can come up with stress too! 

     

    let me know how you get on! I hope you get the news you want x