Lump around my private part

Hi guys 

I’m after some advice if anyone can help. So for the past year I have had a lump I would say it’s close to my bikini line at first I thought it was from shaving as it’s happened in the past but after me stop shaving for a while and it didn’t go or get any better Iv started to think it must be something els the lump with go small at times then out of the blue it will get rather large and painful and will start to puss and it just keeps doing this I have now started to noticed more little lumps appear around the lips area aswell it’s really making me stress Iv been with my partner for 15 years (im31) and it’s just stopping me from having sex and to be honest it’s making me feel really down about it! I just wanted some advice really I absolutely hate the doctors so just wanted to ask for advice before I make a doctors app any help at all would be great thanks 

  • You must go to the doctors and unless you can be convinced they are sure what it is , ask for a biopsy. It's just like having a normal jab where a sample is drawn off. Better to be safe than sorry later. With what you have said, and from my own experience as a sufferer, it doesn't sound like cancer to me.