Worried about referral

Hi I have been referred to the breast clinic due to having sore left breast, doctor couldn’t feel a lump but I think I can, feel very ropey if you understand what I mean? I am very worried and waiting in fear, my mother died of bc and sister had it 2 years ago both of them had the brca2 gene but I don’t however aware it can still happen. Any advice appreciated c

  • I am 26, nearly 27. I thought that until I went to the doctors last week, where after pushing on my painful spot on the left hand side he said he felt a small pea sized lump-which left me bawling completely. The pain hasn’t fully subsided-but it’s  a hell of a lot less than it was last week. 

     

    Hopefully we have bith just bruised ourselves selves from all the prodding! I’ve banned myself from touching my breasts-tbh I can’t even look at them without wanting to cry!

  • i had to have an ultrasound when i was around your age for a hardening which was nothing, i think with me i am more worried as my sister and mam both had breast cancer, sister is ok but mam died 25 years ago.  i dont carry the hereditary gene though so hoping its down to some other reason.....!

  • I will be sending positive vibes your way! I’ve bookes myself a massage this weekend to try and relax.... 

     

    luckily work has has been a good distraction and my boyfriend has been keeping me busy every evening as well which is also a bonus! 

    Psoitive thinking and keeping ourselves occupied until any solid answers are the best thing! I hope you get an appointment sorted soon to ease your anxieties though! ️

  • Thankyou, i have a husband and a 6 year old that keeps me busy...just want it over and done with now..

  • Hi ladies, I’m in the same position  ​​​​​​. I have had pain to the side of my right breast for few months but thought it was due to period tenderness or bra wire digging in. I couldn’t feel any lumps or see anything. I decided to go to see gp on Monday and she’s found a pea sized lump! Due to my mum having breast cancer twice the doctor referred me straight away. My appointment is next Tuesday.

    Like yourselves, I keep bursting into tears and thinking the worst. I wish I could just know today what it is... I feel in limbo

  • Hi it’s not a nice feeling waiting but Tuesday will soon be here and hopefully our minds will be at rest?!

  • Hello,

    I too have very similar symptoms & my appointment isnt until 2nd October.

    My left breast is achey all the time & i get occasional shooting pains.  My armpit is quite tender too & i have a weird backache that wont go that ive had for over a month now.

     

    Hope you ladies get on ok - please come back & let us know how you get on :) x

  • Hi rose,

     

    ive had the same really-mine is bad if I press on my 3rd rib. However my arm has started to go a bit numb now and I’ve had aches in my back too and a headache-am so so scared that it’s all linked :(

     

    my appointment is is on Thursday...

  • ladies I am beyond frightened as now have swollen armpit and can feel a lump, am so sore terrified to check my boob again in case there is now a lump there

  • The waiting is the worst!!!!!
    Try not to poke around too much......ive made myself very sore/tender trying to poke around which hasnt helped im sure!

    Let us know how you get on after your appointment & hopefully they'll put all of our minds at rest x