Hi everyone im new here but have dealt wirh cancer as my dad passed away with it 4 years ago now but this post is about my mum. Although we have not got a diagnosis we are almost certain its cancer. She started with bleeding from her bottom 6 months ago then went on and had bleeding in urine and now has been coughing up flem with blood in it. She will not go to a doctor or have one out to see her no matter what we do. Loosing my dad was very hard for her and she has other anxiety problems plus is disabled. Im just wanting to know if its what we are thinking and its colon cancer its obviously spread but how bad will it get and how long do we have left with her please?