Anxiety is the worst

Hi all,

Just need to vent a bit.

The anxiety waiting for my breast clinic appointment is horrible. I’ve tried to occupy my mind, but today hasn’t been great.

I continue to have pain in my boob and I just want a cuddle. But on top of that it’s the tight chest, palpitations, sickness, fatigue, headache and panic that’s getting me down.

I’m not sure my partner realises but he keeps pulling away from me which makes me even more anxious. 

I wish this week was over and my appointment was here.

Sorry for the rant

xx

 

  • Hi there ...

    We all have anxiety waiting for results / tests / ops and treatment ... because our minds go into overdrive ..  your not alone ... maybe your hubby, just doesn't know what to do ... a lot of men are brought up to solve things... make things right ... with cancer they can't...  maybe ask your Dr for something to help with your anxiety ... just to help you cope ... 

    Sure everyone here will send you a vertual hug ... Chrissie...

  • Hi jengee

    From your husbands point of view he maybe very worried and not sure what to do not knowing can be a problem. Try talking to him if you want a cuddle ask him to hold you, he may be worried about hurting you (pain wise) not thoughtless,. Best wishes

    Billy