Anxious

Hi. Everyone

i came across your site while wide awake and not able to sleep. I have recently been unwell with uninary tract  infections and I got a call from my doctor asking me to come in and discuss my recent kidney ultrasound. Turns out my kidneys were ok but  that  they'd found  an abnormality  on my liver  and I needed a CT scan.  As the GP said I'd  get the a scan in two  weeks I knew then they suspected cancer. The GP arranged for me to get some liver function blood tests,  but  as I have private medical care I said to my doctor maybe you can refer me and I can get the scan done quicker at my local private hospital.  

In the meanwhile I rang my medical insurance and they directed me to a private hospital 50 miles away, with an appointment for a week later with a liver professor .  The  next day  I got a call from my local private hospital saying they'd had a referral from my GP and could see me in two days so I thought ok this gets it done even quicker even though I was swapping a professor for just a doctor. I saw the doctor on the 2nd April  and he examined me and arranged for a ct scan for the Friday and  AFP blood test. I got s letter the next day from the Private doctor's secretary saying a follow up appointment had been made for the 30th April which I thought was a long time but assumed as I hadn't even had any tests yet  it was the usual follow up timescale and if anything came up on the scan it would alter.

So I had the scan last Friday was  told if I hadn't heard anything in a week to call the hospital. So rang today and couldn't get an answer from the medical secretaries but left a message on the answering machine asking if my results were back. Got a call back from her a few hours later from her to say the results are back but my doctor is on holiday until the 23rd April and she can't give me the results!

She went on you say but you've got an appointment booked for the 30th. I told her that was a long time to wait and could she get the doctor to call me  when he's back off holiday. Right now I'm furious with the doctor thinking it's just ok to leave people anxious while he is off skiing or whatever   and so angry knowing my results are just sat there and any delay may be crucial if I need treatment and feel so worried. 

  • Hi PollyT,

    Welcome to Cancer Chat, although I'm sorry to read about your experience so far and your frustrations. I can certainly understand how you feel and I know the uncertainty and the waiting is often one of the hardest and most difficult parts.

    I suppose the positive way of looking at it is that even though you are having to wait a little longer than is ideal, you're likely still getting results a lot quicker given you have had the benefit of private healthcare. I can see though that the doctor being on holiday feels like a bit of an annoying reason to have to wait!

    Hopefully you wll receive a call back to find out sooner. If not, try not to worry about the waiting and try to distract yourself until you're able to find out more. I know this can be easier said than done.

    Do feel free to browse the forum to see if there are other posts on similar topics, or otherwise hopefully others will be along soon if they've had similar experiences.

    Wishing you all the best.

    Ben

    Cancer Chat Moderator

  • I'm surprised the hospital did not get another doctor to tell you the results it would not have taken long. Good luck.

    Billy 

  • Hi.  

    Thank you for the reply. I’m feeling a little less anxious now. I think I was just geared up to get the results and then finding out my doctor had gone on holiday just made me feel super anxious. 

    Im much calmer now and feel more able to cope. Sometimes you just need an outlet to let out your frustrations and this forum was just there when I needed to get things off my chest. 

    Im very grateful for the kind support and it’s nice to know people are there to do that.

    so once again thank you. 

  • Hi. 

    Thank you billy. It would have been good if they had, but I’m trying just to be calmer about it and focus on the positive things. I’m looking forward to celebrating the Easter weekend and I wish you all a happy Easter. 

     

    Thank you for your support. 

  • Hi pollyT.

    I hope you’re finding ways to distract yourself and keep calm. I find this waiting for appointments and answers has put me in quite a daze. What a pain for your doc to be on holiday, any extra waiting is awful! I feel you there. Going to the grocery store these past few days it felt like I was going to pass out from anxiety. 

    Wishing you if anything moments of relaxation and peace in the whirlwind of stress that is waiting for answers with this xx

    all my best

    pam