Sorry, i honestly dont know what else to do,

My mother inlaw was sick on Christmas day non of us thought anything of it but over indulging like we all had...

Fast forward 3 month her voice still horse and she has a funny cough, again bk and fouth from dr your copd getting worse its a cold/flu here some steroids..

Then we see a nurse practitioner she sends us for a camera putting down 'just to have a look'

We then get sent for scans and bloods and we are told she has pursley her left side muscles stuck she has to do speach therapy then 2 days later we are told she actually has lung cancer but no clue what stage as the found another lump in her salivary gland! More scans, bloods and biopsies then we found another mass in your bowel again another scan told all results 10 days to now have a call 4 days later to say they now found more massed now in her lymph nodes so back for more biopsy on tuesday.

I honestly dont know what to do say or how to help its coming up to 12 years since her  husband her sons dad died of lung cancer they all look so so lost, i feel i have no  right even thou she been major part of my life for 16 years.

I just wanna help 

We all have children 18 13 11 and two 4 year olds who also have no clue we havent wanted to tell them till we had answers which seems to be taking for ever