i m 58 yrs old and lived a hard life. Eighteen months ago I started to lose my appetite frm there I was having trouble going to the toilet 2 weeks at a time an vomiting every morning then the coughing started I was tired and miserable, I don’t have any family only one daughter who is 21 yrs old she lives with me she was scared and depressed abwt my health after numerous invasive gastric tests I received a letter yesterday I received a letter saig they have found an incidental shadow over my left lung and I’m scared in case I have to leave my little girl you see my mum died the same way I was the same age as my daughter is now and I don’t how she will cop the question is I’m Waiting for an appointment but I don’t know wether th tell her now or wait to see what they say at the next appointment I’m really confused