Advice needed about mixed feelings

Hi.  
I’ve just had my third biopsy on my breat in 6 years, I found another lump in my breast.   Yes I know you will all think how lucky I am, but.  My family have suffered from cancer in the last 10 years.  2 aunts died 10 years ago from various cancers, during this time my mum was diagnosed with cancer, we had 6 weeks notice before she died.  2 years later my uncle died of cancer,  a year later one of my cousins died. Yes from cancer, then my younger brother was diagnosed, he suffered for 5 years, op after op removing cancer from different parts of his body, then he died, 6 months later another cousin died from cancer.  A year later another aunt died from cancer, at the moment, I have 2 cousins and an uncle going through chemo and radio trying to fight, fingers crossed.  I am happily married, but feel really alone, I have a daughter, but do not feel the need to worry her until I get my results.  I am feeling scared but positive at the same time, cry over the stupidest.  Can anyone advise me on why I have missed feelings. 
Thanks. Polly 

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    Hi Polly,

    I'm delighted for your boss. She must be over the moon.

    Your biopsy results seem to be a bit confusing.. I am sorry that this means a further wait for you.

    Have you got a date for your other biopsy yet? Try not to worry about this, your doctors are very thorough and, will want to make sure that they have an accurate diagnosis, before they decide on your treatment. Many people have to have additional biopsies and tests in order to get a clear cut diagnosis. Did you ask why the additional biopsy was necessary?

    Never be afraid to ask why any procedure needs to be done. It saves a lot of worry between appointments.

    Kind regards,

    Jolamine xx

     

     

  • Hi Jolamine

    Yes my boss is over the moon.   When she phoned, iii actually burst into tears, silly I know but it was the relief, I think.  

    When my consultant phoned me, I was speechless, pleased to get a good result, but worried about what the pathologist had found.  I listened to what she said but couldn’t think of anything to say, other than ‘ok, I’ll wait to hear from you.   

    Regards

    Polly xx

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    Hi Polly,

    Your reaction when the consultant phoned was pretty much as most of us would have reacted. This is why I always write down a list of questions before each appointment, as it is all too easy to forget important questions, when we are so up tight.

    When your consultant phoned you wouldn't have known what he was going to say and you would have been caught off guard.

    Here's hoping that you get that biopsy soon and, that with any luck, you get the same results as your boss.

    Fingers crossed.

    Kind regards,

    Jolamine xx

  • Hi

    I received a call this morning from the hospital, saying I need to go in tomorrow for my next biopsy, I’m having another suction core biopsy, the same as my last one, but this time I’m having to stay at the hospital for at least 4 hours afterwards.  I’ve had 3 biopsy’s and never had to stay at the hospital, I normally leave as soon as I’m dressed.   Am starting to get scared.  I’d just decided that I have to be brave and face this all head on, regardless of the results. This has knocked me back

     

    regards

    Polly xx

  • Hi Polly,

    I'll be thinking about you tomorrow. I hope the biopsy goes well.

    Hugs

    Lucy x

  • Hi Lucy

    thank you.  The waiting is the hardest, I’ve been through it with family members.  

     

    Kind regards 

    Polly

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    Hi Polly

    You'll be glad to finally get your biopsy tomorrow. Don't be afraid to ask them why you have to stay in hospital for 4 hours after you have it.

    I am not a medic, but I suspect that it could be because you've had another biopsy not that long ago. As a result of this, they may be expecting the possibility of a little more bleeding after this procedure. If they keep you in, they have medication to hand which can reduce or even stop this, so they are just being ultra cautious.

    I am thinking of you and keeping my fingers crossed. Please update us once you know more. Remember that we are always here for you.

    Kind regards,

    Jolamine xx

     

     

  • Hi

    Had my biopsy today.  The reason was, the pathologist had seen. Something on the mammogram done after the last biopsy was taken.  The reason I was asked to stay for 4 hours was due to the size of the biopsy.  Once everything was explained probably, I felt a lot more relaxed.   So it’s the waiting game again.  So fingers crossed 

    Regards

    Polly xx

  • Hi Polly,

    I'm glad you got some, answers regarding the length of your appointment.

    I hope the wait goes by quickly for you.

    Hugs

    Lucy x

  • Hii Lucy 

    Thank you, I will admit. I had a sleepless night.  The wait seems like forever, my appointment is next Friday, so Thursday I will not let my phone out of my sight, praying it will ring.  

    Please keep informed about your progress 

    Sweet regards

    Polly xx