Waiting for breast clinic referral and scared!

Hope you can help.
I’ve been referred for a breast clinic appointment. I had noticed a patch of dark skin around my areola and texture changes. With it being so itchy I assumed it was eczema but after 2 weeks it had still not cleared. My husband noticed that my underarm was swollen so I visited my GP (yesterday) breast examination identified a mass in my breast (I check regularly due to family history so I’m really angry with myself for not spotting this), a lump in my arm pit and swollen lymph nodes so an urgent breast clinic referral was made.
The hospital called this morning with an appointment for the 30th but as my employer provides BUPA cover, I have been able to get an appointment for this Friday.
Since my Drs appointment yesterday my underarm is quite sore/throbbing which I presume is down to the prodding but as you can imagine my mind is all over the place and the Dr did not reassure me that it was nothing to worry about. When I asked if it was cancer he didn’t respond. 
I would like to know what the breast clinic appointment will look like and whether I will find out on Friday if it is cancer? My gut is telling me that it’s not looking good, primarily due to the concerns my doctor had. I would also like to know if the pain in my arm pit is normal after a breast exam (if my lymph nodes are swollen) or is this something else I need to be concerned about? I try to avoid google and thought it would be better to contact someone directly who can provide honest accurate advise...I just want someone to be honest and tell me what I’m dealing with so I can manage my expectations. Thanks you so much for all that you do to help people like myself.

  • Hi there!

    I know exactly how you feel. 

    I think it's natural for all of us to assume the worst but my doctor said that the majority of lumps they find are benign so I am hoping very much that it will be the case for all of us.

     

    Please let us know how you've got on today.

    We're all here to support each other.

     

    Jen x

  • Mine is next Thursday too.

     

    I am going through the motions worrying about everything aswell.

     

     

    Fingers crossed we'll both get the results we hope for. Let's keep in touch!

     

    Best wishes to you.

     

    Jen x

  • Morning Jen,

    Thank you for your message.  I pray we both get the results we want too.

    Definitely keep in touch.  Message whenever - it really helps to have someone there xx

  • Same situation here mobile lump in left breast found and pain in arm. Hoping to book clinic appointment for Thursday 11th. Very scared but also trying to stay strong but hard.  I try to distract myself and stay off dr google...glad to find this forum instead. 

    Good luck and pray for good best results for all. 

  • i, my referral was booked for 30th but I found out I had BUPA through my employer so was able to be seen privately on Friday. The referral letter from my GP stated he suspected breast cancer due to a nodular mass and sweeping to my arm pit which he felt was linked to a neoplasm (I had to google this then went into further panic) The consultant at the hospital did a breast examination and couldn’t feel anything, an ultrasound on my underarm should no sign of lymph node swelling. He said that my symptoms were down to eczema and having dense breast tissue. I didn’t have an ultrasound on my breast or a mammogram and the consultant said there were no signs or symptoms of cancer and that my GO was perhaps overly cautious in this instance. 

    I should feel relieved but I don’t. How could my GP get it so wrong? I’ve not felt any lump/mass so that gives my some reassurance but as I’ve not had a mammogram could it be missed? As I’ve now seen a breast cancer specialist I should now be reassured but I’m not.

  • Morning Jen,

     

    How did you get on yesterday?

     

    Lisa xx

  • Hi all,

    I found a lump in my right breast at the weekend ,went today and the doctor has found two lumps in that breast .She has referred me to a breast clinic ,does anyone know how long the wait is? Slightly panicking! 

    Charlie x

  • Hello Lisa, 

     

    I'm so sorry I only realised you sent a reply now- a year later! 
     

    At my appointment the consultant who met me did a scan, felt the lump and said he thought it looked ok but would do a biopsy to be sure - luckily it came back as normal lactating breast tissue but they said to come back after I'd given up breastfeeding to see if the lump is still there. 
     

    I am actually still breastfeeding but weaning gradually so shall see how it is when I've fully stopped.

    How about you? I hope you got good news too.

     

     

     Jen x

     

  • They should see you within two weeks - they are very quick usually. 
     

    all the best, I know how scary the wait is, remember that most lumps turn out to be benign so you have statistics on your side!