Tongue Biopsy. Waiting on results

Hello All,

         It was last wednesday that I went to the oral surgeon to have a biopsy done on my tongue where I have some white patches/spots on the top and forward section of my tongue.  I am only 30 years old, but having drank and smoked quite a bit for the past 10 years, I am quite concerned to say the least given the increased chances that smokers and drinkers have of getting oral cancer.  

         The white patches appear to be the only symptom I have.  There is nothing else and no pain at all. I have a follow up appointment on the 2nd of August to go over my biopsy results.  Quite a long time to wait really to find out whether or not you have cancer.  I was wondering about people's experiences whether they were diagnosed with cancer or not.   Do people who get diagnosed with cancer receive their results early?  Just kind of wondering in the back of my head that if I don't hear anything before my appointment that it is likely to be a sign of good news.  

    Also if you have/had any bad habits like I do, did you give them up before you got your biopsy resuits?  I've already ditched the cigarrettes even before my biopsy.  Giving up the drink has been even harder but I stopped drinking so much after my biopsy.  Its really hard giving these things up especially with a rather stressful job.  Not really sure what to do tomorrow as I have a tradition with people from my workplace to go have a pint or two at lunchtime on Fridays.  Naturally with the uncertainty regarding my health, I am inclined to not go or just have a coke.  I will probably get lots of awkward questions as of to why I'm not drinking.  Not sure whether to lie or just tell them what's going on.  At the moment, since I don't know anything, I don't want others to worry about me.  Did you wait to tell anyone you know about even having the biopsy until you knew what the results were?

 

Many Thanks

  •   Lovely pics Kitty....so thats wer the name Kitty came from! Lol..

  • Means a lot to me that even though you have suffered the scourge of the dreaded C, you still find it in your hearts to be happy for someone who has escaped it, I feel very humbled .

    And actually you were right - we DID go to the pub! We intended visiting a new coffee shop but when we arrived it was closed and the pub is nearby.......

    Still not quite ready for that crisp blow-out but I managed some chicken and chips ( no vinegar.) 

    Working tomorrow so off to bed now, didn't sleep too well last night, but really, a huge thank you for your support over the last 2 weeks, can't help but think how lucky I am, I know up and down the country there will be others who didn't receive good news today. Hideous disease.

    I will definitely stay in touch, again thank you for caring xxxx

     

     

     

  •   aww what a lovely message kitty  thank you... im sure you will have the best sleep in the last lot of weeks...sleep well  keep well  and keep in touch the very best of best wishes mrs and DONT forget youve to book that MAMMOGRAM!!! REAL SOON!!!  xo

  • Added you and Clara as friends, demc, thinking I could message both of you at the same time, but it doesn't work like that on this Forum ( I used to belong to Dacia World Forum and you could add several people to the same conversation - yes, I drive a Dacia, please don't unfriend me!  :D .My badge-conscious son almost died of shame but I don't care, I love my Duster!)

    ​​​​​​Didn't sleep all that well with the mouthguards in, just felt wrong, but I will persevere. I'm going to see my dentist as a bit of filling crumbled off some time ago, it doesn't hurt so I thought I'd leave it until the next check-up but now I'm wondering whether that has caused erosion of the tongue. That or the toothpaste - have switched to an SLS-free one, amazingly Lidl do one for I think 59p, the branded ones like Kingfisher are ridiculously expensive. 

    Got to get ready for work, one more sleep before your appointment,Clara, you know we'll be rooting for you xx

     

     

  • Hi Dee & Kitty,

    For some reason I have the jitters about tomorrow, alot more real now and I think I`ve been burying my head in the sand a bit :-( But I`ve had loads of things to contend with(house buyers let me down yet again!) I was going to move back to my home then this all came up.

    Kitty those are adorable pics!

    I will be in touch soon keep well both of you ladies. xx

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    Hi Clara,

    Here's hoping that all goes well for you tomorrow.

    Will be thinking of you and praying that it's good news.

    Kind regards,

    Jolamine xx

  •    Dear clara our thoughts are with you for tomorrow... wer all here wishing you well... D.

  • Hi Jolamine,

    Thank you for your kind words.xx

    I think it wouldve been best if consultant had`nt said he thinks the cancer has spread at least untill he had some evidence ie:CT scan. Ah well I will know for sure tomorrow.

     

    Kind regards xx

  • Hi D,

    You are so kind, we are strangers but have all formed a friendship so quickly too.

    I have spent the evening reading Ian`s blog about his journey. It brings back alot of memories.

    My daughter visited today. She is going with me tomorrow. I told her if he gets the nasoscope out she is to excuse herself and leave the room. She asked why? I said because I may well hit him if he hurts my nose. She said in that case I`m not leaving.Haha I bet I get a warning off of her before we go in :-) I`m terrible!

    Be in touch.x

  • Oh Clara I'm sorry to hear you're now worried about today, apologies for not logging in last night but awful day at work, went to bed early and am now wide awake at silly o clock. 

    The same problems will be waiting for me at work today so I won't be able to check in till this evening but you know we are all thinking of you. 

    Try not to punch the doctor, you need him on your side!!:D

    Sending hugs to your daughter too because she is no doubt worried sick as well.

     

    Fingers crossed ( and everything else) 

    xxxxxxx