Hi I'm Toni 50 just found lump, waiting for biopsy n yeah solo stressed! Really need some one to chat to coz those I've told are either awkward or avoiding me, I totally understand how hard it is for them, I don't even wanna talk about it. But my first mother in law found a lump and I was pregnant, by the time I gave birth she was riddled and it had gone to her brain, my age ! I just need to chat x

Hi Toni so sorry to hear you found a lump , and worried , I'm 43 I found a lump last January , so scary , remembering all the waiting around for results , and never forget the day they told me I had grade 3 aggressive Breast cancer , big shock , but I got through it the lumpectomy , chemo , radio , smiling and being strong all the way through , I've had the all clear had my one year on check all well , here to chat if need , take care , Ali xx

Thank you for the above comment. I am waiting for the results of my biopsy. They have told me they are fairly certain it is malignant and pretty advanced but reading your comments has given me hope that i will get through it. Fingers crossed! 

It's such a scary time having tests and being diagnosed, arguably the worst part.

I have just finished treatment and can look back and say while it was tough we can get through these things that are thrown at us xx

Good luck xx

Hi , I'm 43 and am waiting results of biopsy also. Absolutely petrified . Ultrasound nurse said big black uneven shadow was 2cm but that my lymph look ok. Nurse then said my mamma showed "worrying" results then said see you in 2 weeks. I know it's going to be cancer so will face whatever comes but so worried its spread etc the waiting is just awful and I keep looking at my hubby and kids and imagining them without me,,,, stupid because this little *** is not going to get me ......rant over phew x

Hello all, not sure if this is still active but here's hoping. I have just come from an ultrasound and mammogram during which the doctor spotted something on the screen and did a biopsy there and then. The consultant had seemed so relaxed about my mammogram and what seemed like a 'ridge' rather than a lump that it has all come as a horrible shock. I was expecting to be told the ultrasound was all clear and now face a week wait until I go to get the results next Thursday. I alter rate between feeling calm and then feeling total panic. It all seems really unbelievable. I'm 35 and have no family history - a biopsy wasn't something I ever expected to have.

Hi Elaine90 I've just stumbled across this post. I found a lump a few weeks ago and I've been today to the breast clinic. The Doc said it was nothing to worry about but I was to go for a mammogram and scan just to make sure. So off I went feeling quite positive. I had my mammogram and was waiting for my scan when they called me back in as they'd spotted something else. I ended up having about 10 biopsys taken and now have to wait till next week for my results. I'm petrified. I hope your results were ok  

Hi Elaine90 I've just stumbled across this post. I found a lump a few weeks ago and I've been today to the breast clinic. The Doc said it was nothing to worry about but I was to go for a mammogram and scan just to make sure. So off I went feeling quite positive. I had my mammogram and was waiting for my scan when they called me back in as they'd spotted something else. I ended up having about 10 biopsys taken and now have to wait till next week for my results. I'm petrified. I hope your results were ok