Hello JENNYMC2104,  

Thank you for coming here and sharing your story. You did the right thing flagging this irregular and heavy bleeding which you have been experiencing for the last 6 months. I am glad that they did a scan but it must have been a bit unsettling for you to hear the words "there is a lot going on" and you were right to press him to find out more about what he meant specifically by "there is a lot going on". It was a good idea to email the gynaecologist after you had your scan and to give them an update after what you were told by the radiologist and I am glad that you will get to talk to him soon and see him in person. 

It's normal to be worried especially as there is still so much uncertainty. I completely understand you are worried given your family history, but I would suggest you wait a little and gather all the details before you discuss the possibility of having a hysterectomy for example. Once you know exactly what is going on, you will be in a better position to consider all your options and that by the time you talk to him on Thursday they will be able to tell you more and explain things thoroughly to you. I am not sure what may happen next but if you would like to talk things through with one of our nurses, you are welcome to give them a call on this free number 0808 800 4040 - their line is open Monday to Friday from 9am to 5pm. I also hope that you will get the insights of other members of our community who have been in your position before. 

It's so sad what happened to your son and that he was initially told it was an abscess only later to find out it was cancer. I hope that he is well now though and that the treatment was effective. You're totally right to want to ensure it is all 'belt and braces' from now on. Just a few days to wait now until you see the gynaecologist on Thursday and I am keeping everything crossed for you that it all goes well and that you get some clarity very soon. You are right to try and remain calm even though it's not easy and it will be good to actually see him in person rather than on the phone. As you say, there is no point worrying about something you cannot control and while you are waiting, it might be worth reading our helpful tips on how to cope while waiting for news. It might be a good idea to write down any questions you might have ahead of your appointment as it's easy to forget sometimes what we meant to ask.

I am keeping everything crossed for you for Thursday! Keep us updated on how it goes if you get a chance. 

Best wishes, 

Lucie, Cancer Chat Moderator

Hello JENNYMC2104,  

Thank you for coming here and sharing your story. You did the right thing flagging this irregular and heavy bleeding which you have been experiencing for the last 6 months. I am glad that they did a scan but it must have been a bit unsettling for you to hear the words "there is a lot going on" and you were right to press him to find out more about what he meant specifically by "there is a lot going on". It was a good idea to email the gynaecologist after you had your scan and to give them an update after what you were told by the radiologist and I am glad that you will get to talk to him soon and see him in person. 

It's normal to be worried especially as there is still so much uncertainty. I completely understand you are worried given your family history, but I would suggest you wait a little and gather all the details before you discuss the possibility of having a hysterectomy for example. Once you know exactly what is going on, you will be in a better position to consider all your options and that by the time you talk to him on Thursday they will be able to tell you more and explain things thoroughly to you. I am not sure what may happen next but if you would like to talk things through with one of our nurses, you are welcome to give them a call on this free number 0808 800 4040 - their line is open Monday to Friday from 9am to 5pm. I also hope that you will get the insights of other members of our community who have been in your position before. 

It's so sad what happened to your son and that he was initially told it was an abscess only later to find out it was cancer. I hope that he is well now though and that the treatment was effective. You're totally right to want to ensure it is all 'belt and braces' from now on. Just a few days to wait now until you see the gynaecologist on Thursday and I am keeping everything crossed for you that it all goes well and that you get some clarity very soon. You are right to try and remain calm even though it's not easy and it will be good to actually see him in person rather than on the phone. As you say, there is no point worrying about something you cannot control and while you are waiting, it might be worth reading our helpful tips on how to cope while waiting for news. It might be a good idea to write down any questions you might have ahead of your appointment as it's easy to forget sometimes what we meant to ask.

I am keeping everything crossed for you for Thursday! Keep us updated on how it goes if you get a chance. 

Best wishes, 

Lucie, Cancer Chat Moderator