Scared after seeing on my NHS app the words 'suspected gynaecological cancer'

Hello, 

I went to the Dr about 3 weeks ago after some bleeding in between periods and lower back pain.

Had a blood test done on Tuesday, which came back as abnormal. My CA125 result was 43. I spoke to the Dr and she said she would do a fast track referral for a scan and to see a gynecologist. The scan date has come through for 28th May. 

I am really scared after seeing on my NHS app the words 'suspected gynecological cancer'. I am 42.

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  • Urgh it’s really hard isn’t it. I hope your next tests go well. I’m so very tired as neither my husband or I slept much last night, my watch said I’d had just over 3 hours in total. I had so hoped yesterday they were going to tell me all was ok. I’m 3 1/2 months out of having my colon removed and was just beginning to feel myself again. I guess I am just grateful that the nhs is looking after me. I’ve not had a call today so I’ve tried chasing them but I have not got any further finding out a timeframe. Going to do some gardening to try to stop myself getting so worked up when all I want to do is cry. Thanks for responding to me it does help getting support:-)

  • Hello Blush53, sorry to hear that lots of things seem to be going on with you. It makes you feel miserable I've also had sciatica. Gardening is lovely and being in nature. I've spent all day crying to the point I'm exhausted. So now watching reality TV!!!! I also have to tell myself off and think about those who do not have access to medical care in other countries. We are blessed with what we have. Hope the gardening is a distraction xxx

  • Oh no sciatica is rubbish. The m with you on crying till you’re exhausted. Failed at gardening…have had a call back and I have pre op on 27th and general anaesthetic hystroscopy on 1st. Another lot of crying commenced. I’m cross with myself I can’t seem to control my emotions at all. I also don’t want to see anyone I know except my husband so am cancelling things as I think I just need to wallow right now. I will be going on lots of walks outside in fresh air I just don’t want to get emotional in front of other people and I can’t trust myself not to right now. You are right though we are very lucky to have the nhs xx

  • I've only told my partner, dad and 1 friend. I haven't told anyone else but to be honest I've distanced myself from a lot of people because I cannot listen to their woos or tales. I haven't got the energy and working has helped to distract me massively. 

    Glad you got your appointment.. Fingers crossed xxxx

  • Will be sending love and positive thoughts on the 1st. Please do let us know how it goes. Love the sound of getting out in the fresh air, really helps doesn't it xx