Childhood cancer symptoms and diagnosis

Wanted to ask for help on how to progress things in terms of ruling out cancer? My daughter is 8, she’s been vomiting randomly (meaning, she’ll be sick once, with no other indication of illness except a mild low grade fever) for about 4 months and we’ve had about 8 incidents of this so far, she’s had low grade fevers the same amount of time, she’s got diarrhoea constantly, she has bruising, she’s pale, she’s never normally unwell but this all started in January and shows no signs of going away - it’s actually getting worse.

My cousin died from leukaemia aged 19 and I feel that the moment I mentioned this to the GP, they were dismissive. Currently we are back and forth every other day, with absence from school occurring every other day too. 

I said I wanted a referral for a blood test via paediatrics to rule out cancer and the GP rolled her eyes and said it’s likely migraines - my daughter has the odd headache but it’s not extreme enough to cause these symptoms. Why is it so hard to have things ruled out? They have now reluctantly agreed to do a stool sample but if that shows nothing - how do you get them to listen? 

I’m close to paying privately as I’m that worried about her. 

  • Hi Lalaland89, 

    It's completely normal as a parent that you are feeling so concerned after seeing your little girl so poorly for a while and I hope that you will get to the bottom of what has been making her unwell. As it's been going on for a while and she is not getting better, I completely get your feeling of urgency that she needs a proper diagnosis immediately.  And I am so sorry you lost your cousin at the young age of 19 - that is so young and incredibly sad and it's bound to leave a deep mark on you and made you even more anxious. I hope that you will get some reassurance soon and some definite answers. As you mentioned you felt they were a little dismissive, it would not hurt too to seek a second opinion and ask to speak to a different GP. It must be all the more distressing for you as your daughter is missing school regularly because of this and you are going back and forth but feel that you are not getting anywhere. 

    So I would suggest you try and get in touch with a different GP just to have a second opinion and to mention all your worries and that you would like her to have a blood test and a referral to paediatrics. Sometimes just speaking to a different GP who has a better manner with their patients and explains things properly can make a big difference. 

    I hope that you manage to speak to someone soon and that you get some definite answers. I am keeping everything crossed for you and your little one and hope that it all turns out to be nothing too concerning and that she feels better soon. 

    Other members of our community may have further suggestions for you based on their personal experience and I hope that they will pop by and share their experience with you. 

    Best wishes, 

    Lucie, Cancer Chat Moderator