Breast lump & Armpit swelling - waiting for breast clinic appointment. Wanting to talk to someone who understands the worry and can make me feel better

Hello, im just looking for some support/advice i guess.

I had a pain in my right breast about 4 weeks ago so had a feel and noticed a lump and a thickening. My period was due within the week so i thought it must be due to that. After my period it was still there but as life is busy (mum of 5) i forgot about it until about another week later when i checked again and was sure there was definitely a different area on my breast. I saw the gp who said she could feel it and would refer me to the breast clinic and the appointment would be within 2 weeks.

2 days later i got the appointment for another 2 weeks time (so 16 days from the gp referral). Whilst on the app viewing my appointment i saw the referral letter and it said suspected breast cancer due to my age (43) and a new lump. I panicked at that a little but thought that must be what they write for the 2 week appointments.

Anyway several days have passed and last night i noticed quite a large swelling in my armpit on the same side. Its definitely different to the other armpit and is visible aswel as feel-able. This had made me panic even more and im just wanting to talk to anybody who understands the worry and can make me feel better in any way so i dont spend the next 11 days worrying excessively. Should i make the gp aware of the new symptom with the armpit swelling or just wait for the breast clinic appointment?

Thanks in advance for any replies x

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  • Hi thankyou for your message. It wasnt a great experience to be honest. The doctor i saw was quite bad natured and rude and i felt very rushed and dismissed. He examined me briefly and said he couldnt feel anything but he marked where i could with a pen and said i would have a mammogram and a scan. I had the mammogram then he called me back in and said it was fine and i could go. He gave me a leaflet on getting to know your breasts, which as a 43 year old mother of 5 i found quite condescending he said it could just be normal for me, i tried to say this isnt normal for me thats why i went to the GP but he just dismissed me. I dont know what to feel. I mean im relieved the mammogram didnt show anything but i would have felt more reassured if i had the scan too like he initially said and there waa an explanation for it, whether it be that it was a cyst or whatever. The radiographer was lovely who did my mammogram was lovely and asked if i had anybody with me so i thought she had seen something. The nurse who chaperoned the doctor was also lovely and i was in and out in about 45 minutes which was quicker than i expected. I guess il just try to relax now and if anything else crops up or changes pop back to the GP x